Thursday, 1 May 2025

Why Life Feels Easier for Them, But Not for Me

Have you ever looked at someone’s life and thought 

“Why is life working out for them, but not for me?”
“Why do they get the wins, the love, the success… while I’m still stuck?”

It’s a common feeling.
But what you're seeing is only the surface.
The filtered version. The highlight reel.

People don’t post their breakdowns.
They don’t record their sleepless nights,
their failures, their rejections, their embarrassments.
They don’t share the days they doubted themselves,
felt like giving up, or quietly cried in the car after pretending they were okay.

What you see — is the outcome.
What you don’t see — is the journey.

Everyone has their own version of hell to walk through.
Some walk it silently.
Some have no one to talk to.
Some fall apart before they figure it out.

The truth is — most people earn their peace.
They go through pain to get where they are.
They fight battles you’ll never hear about.

And maybe that includes you, too.

If you’re still in the middle of your struggle,
still waiting for your breakthrough —
know this:
You're not behind.
You’re just becoming.

So instead of saying, “Why not me?”,
start saying, “My time will come too.”

And when it does,
Don’t be afraid to share your story —
because your scars might be someone else’s survival guide.

I'm still walking through mine, but I'm waiting to share my story too — when it's ready.
Until then, I'm becoming. And maybe you are too.

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