Monday, 5 April 2021

Why Most Dating Advice is Bullshit

When it comes down to it, choosing the right person is not something that can be taught. It's a personal journey that is learned through experiences and by putting yourself out there. Despite what society and online dating experts may tell us, there is no one perfect type of person for us.

Reading about red flags in dating can lead to paranoia, as what may be a red flag for one person may not be for another. Rather than worrying about red flags, it's important to focus on building a meaningful relationship with another person. Dating apps can lead to a sense of entitlement and taking others for granted, but it's crucial to remember that at the end of the day, we are all human.

A relationship is like a dance, and every movement must be made carefully and in consideration of the partner's feelings. When you take a leadership role, you are actively working towards a desired outcome, but it's also important to pay attention to your partner's desires. Our hearts can often guide us towards what's right, even when our brain says otherwise. It's not about finding the perfect person, but rather the perfectly imperfect person who is right for us.

The abundance of information and options available to us can be overwhelming and lead to fear, overthinking, and missed opportunities. Rather than allowing life to pass us by, we should take a chance and not be afraid to pursue happiness. It's better to follow your heart, even if it leads to heartbreak, than to have a mediocre experience. So, don't let fear hold you back, and seize the moment while you can.



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