Is wearing Thali necessary for Women?

Let me get one thing clear here. I m not questioning the custom of putting thali in marriage-(not yet !). I am only questioning a thought process ,like you should wear thali always , it can’t be removed and it is long life of your husband…

There were many traditions we had and slowly they are vanishing into thin air one by one….Traditions were created by human to make sure that everyone leads a life with moral values and also to impart good culture in all.. But that was in olden days  now we have got enough exposure , we read a lot , we see lot of outside world and moral values and culture is never a universal phenomenon.. it varies from person to person … as long as we are good human beings I don’t see a major problem there.. which is appearing good in my eyes may be seen as wrong in your eyes

So,saying the scientific reason for wearing all the ornaments..it says wearing Thali increases blood circulation , and touch of metal with body is good bla bla..why can’t I wear a plain gold chain ?? why should it be thali/Mangalsutra??both are metals…

Respect to relationship ?

Is it a respect to the relationship ???I would say certainly not .. we see many incidents where people have affairs when husband is alive .. So I think respect should come based on the trust you have in the relationship than what you wear.. for that matter.

I dont really able to understand how do one’s life related to someone’s chain ??? not sounding logical to me.. If you want your husband to live long , you should pray for him .. agreed ( of course, people who dont trust in God wont even agree to this ) .. but how can one chain save him? Marriages are made in heaven ..doesnt God know that he is ur hubby ?does he need a ID proof ?

✔️Respect the relationship, be truthful and sincere to one another the bond between two individuals in a marriage is through love

✔️Respect is obviously a two way traffic, not one way. we share life and it is equally important for both of us to pray for other.. Days are gone where Men were seen superior now i think it is equal .

Wearing or not wearing thali/Mangalsutra is one’s own decision, I dont want to question one’s belief. If you trust , please follow. Dont force on others. if you dont follow , so be it again dont force on others..